To be!

To become happy satisfied human being you should start concentrate on who you want to be,  not  on what you want to have.

Life should be about being,  not about having.

As simple as that

“I can't go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.” 

― Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Looking for happiness....

Have you ever analysed that your life's happiness and satisfaction depend on so many factors and not only on them but also on the corelation and hierarchy of above  mentioned?!  

Let me distinguish the most important ones:

1. Your health - physical and mental. 
2. People around u - family and friends.
3. Place u live in - not even mentioning the place and culture you were born in
4. Your attitude towards all above.

Those are presented just in a huge shortcut. 

Now analysis time.

Just imagine you are living in the best place on earth, let's say the one of your dreams (mountains, big city, seaside, whatever suits u). You take your morning coffee, sit on the terrace and enjoy the view. Perfect, is not it? Would be....However, you can feel pain all over your body, you are worried that you would die in few weeks, there is nobody to take care of you....ah not just that there is nobody to even say that about...no one around you!

Now you have the great bunch of friends, you have lovely family. Those people are always there for you. But you live in a shit hole....in the middle of nowhere, it is just nothing there...you was already in all places, you saw everything. You have great friends and family but not a place to enjoy that. Let even make it more dramatic, you live in slums (Brazilian favelas to make it more actual), you see people dying around you every day, they are suffering, slaughters all around, guns, drugs....you sit with your great friends in small cartoon room, dirty and smelly, disgusting...

Etc., etc.

Those hypothesis can go in never ending combinations. And actually it does not make a lot of sense to think of that. However, it DOES make sense to change your life! Do everything possible to make it as you wish! I just would not like to regret all those missed opportunities.